Teach me how to love,by musiq soulchild….

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Teach me how to love,by musiq soulchild….
This song makes me cringe, a little. Is it just me, or is it an impossible task to teach someone how to love? Shouldn’t you already know how to love me, in order for me to feel safe enough to invest myself? Is it worth it? What do you think?

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Resistance: The incomparable bully

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Part of the Get Free, Get Happy Series…

“What you resist will persist”…

What does that mean to you? From my experience, it means having my priorities all discombobulated.  It means being so caught up in what people will think, say, feel about my life that I forget that my ultimate goal for me is peace and happiness, so fear and resentment stick around a little longer–actually as long as I allow it to stay, it does.

In my life, “supposed” ; it’s such an ugly word. I held on so tight to the lie of what my life was “supposed” to be (false perceptions handed down by family, friends, peers, society), that I didn’t realize that all I had to do was let go of “supposed” to reveal the truth that was already there whether I like it or not. Continue reading